It's Not Just the Superbowl
I'm not a rabid football fan, but I do enjoy watching the game. I'm certainly not an expert at predicting outcomes of games, but this year's Superbowl was of special interest. It was not only because the Chicago Bears earned a trip there, but also because of the two coaches who were involved this year.
Furthermore, my youngest son, Luke, was home from Steamboat Springs, Colorado for a visit. It was great watching the game and spending time with him and the rest of the kids.
Two African-American coaches, Tony Dungy and Lovey Smith, led their respective teams, the Indianapolis Colts and the Chicago Bears to the pinnacle of their sport. I did not not know much about these two men until reports came out about their similar coaching styles. They are both soft-spoken men in a sport that is dominated by strong personalities and harsh manners.
Two African-American coaches, Tony Dungy and Lovey Smith, led their respective teams, the Indianapolis Colts and the Chicago Bears to the pinnacle of their sport. I did not not know much about these two men until reports came out about their similar coaching styles. They are both soft-spoken men in a sport that is dominated by strong personalities and harsh manners.
The fact that they were able to accomplish so much in a seemingly unforced manner was a lesson to me as a teacher. Coaches are very much like teachers, and teachers are very much like coaches. The lesson for me is that a "gentle persuasion" goes farther than confrontation, especially with young people.
My son Luke and I have had our differences in the past. But as of late, things have mellowed out between us. It seems, paradoxically, that distance has brought us closer together. Today we were lying around discussing everything from music to politics, and it was surprising to see on how much we did agree. Some people say jokingly that "parents get smarter as kids grow older." While that may be mostly said in sarcasm, it may actually be true. As for Luke and I, we were actually enjoying each other's company and trusting and communicating better.
The Bears' loss was a dissappointment, but I was looking beyond the score. It was an honorable loss to a worthy opponent. The event was also a reminder to a teacher and father of how these coaches bridged a generation gap. Our beloved Bears may have suffered a defeat, but I'll always remember the 41st as more than just a Superbowl.
